Book Review – The Skin You’re In

Reading The Skin You’re In really hit close to home for me.

When I was a kid, I was bullied a lot. Like many kids who go through that, I spent way too much time staring in the mirror, wondering what I should change about myself to make people like me more. Maybe if I were thinner, acted differently, or blended in better, things would be easier. That is a heavy thing for a child to carry, the feeling that somehow who you are or what you look like might be the problem.

That is why Ellie’s journey in this story meant so much to me. Watching her struggle with those same feelings and slowly realize she does not have to change herself to be worthy of kindness or belonging is powerful. The moment she understands that she is just fine in the skin she is in feels like a breath of fresh air. It took me years to learn what Ellie discovers in this story, and I could not help thinking how meaningful it would be for a child to hear that message early on.

Author Bob Kamp tells the story through playful, rhythmic rhyme which makes it a joy to read aloud. The poems have a light, bouncy flow that keeps the story moving while still carrying an important message kids can understand.

The illustrations by Marry Manning are beautiful and full of personality. Each page bursts with color and expression, bringing Ellie’s world to life in a way that immediately pulls young readers in.

I also had the opportunity to work on this book behind the scenes. I designed the cover and the interior layout, and served as project manager throughout the illustration and design process. A lot of time and care went into getting every page just right and making sure the book was beautifully prepared for print.

When you put the writing, the artwork, and the design together, the result is a story that feels warm, joyful, and meaningful all at the same time. It is the kind of book that can open really important conversations with kids about kindness, confidence, and learning to feel comfortable in their own skin.

If I had read a story like this when I was younger, it would have meant the world to me. Books like this have a quiet kind of magic. They reach the child who might be feeling a little unsure of themselves and remind them that they are already enough.

And honestly, that is a message every kid deserves to hear.